My 15 year old daughter is very ill mannered and her behavior in school is very bad. She doesn’t take interest in studies and is also found engaged in school bullying. Due to this she had been expelled many times from school. Whenever I try to talk to her she replies in a very rude manner. What should I do now?
Sometime in growing age teenagers started to behave like this. This is your duty to look after her in correct sense. For your daughter, I think programs of boot camps will be the best options. These camps are completely based on army rules and regulation which helps to create punctuality in children’s lives.
There is no doubt in that your daughter would an ill mannered and disobedient girl. She needs to live under the well defined supervision professional faculties of troubled teen schools. Atmosphere and intellectual environment of such schools guide the children to quit their negative attitude.
All kids are not the same, they have interest in different areas where they can do their best so just don’t force her to do study just try to find out in what she can do their best and provide the platform for that. It’s a great way to let her engage in their interested task. Then its other bad behavior get vaporize normally.
As you said that she is very ill mannered and behaved very rudely, it means you never scolded her whenever she did something wrong. Now it’s not the time to scold her, you just make her understand and give her proper advice and suggestion. She will be alright if you talk her very politely and with patience.
Keeping in mind your daughter state, I would like to suggest you to firstly consult with the school teachers about his rude behavior. There are lots of boot camps where the best treatment program is given to these troubled children, with the help of expert professionals. You have to take your daughter to these boot camps for treatment.
It is very common problem in nowadays kids. All peoples like to make fun of others, these kind of people makes friends of the similar behavior and then make fun of others in a group. So you first have to change her friend circle and talk with her in friendly manner. If this is in great extent then you must need the help of physiatrist.
Some teens develop such kinds of behavior if they don’t get proper attention and love from their parents. You should talk to her and show proper care and love to her. Try to make her understand that this kind of behavior is not good and it can cause her a lot of trouble in future.
