One of my friends is not doing well these days. She used to be topper amongst all of us. But now her performance is deteriorating in class. She party late in night and abuse drugs also. I’ve seen her abusing marijuana with one of her friend. This is going to create a problem for her in future. Should I tell this to her parents?
Hmmm, right now you need to talk to your friend first and try to make her understand about the serious impacts of drugs on social and professional life. Tell her about the disease that can arise because of drugs. May be she listen you and starts to avoid such substances.
It happens when someone can’t get the expected thing according their skills and intelligence. May be she is dealing with the same situation. If you can be able to get her back on right track then its fine but you have to inform to her parents whether it crates some disputes between you and her but relationship but al last it doesn’t matters if she is getting normal.
Yeah, it is a responsibility of a good friend to do anything that’s better for their friend’s career and future. You must inform their parents in regarding to all of activities she is doing nowadays and also told her parents to treat her in a friendly way rather to getting angry because restrictions and angriness is not a solution to any problem.
As far as your friend’s state is concerned, she has totally got into grip of addiction. She started off taking drugs, it means somewhat serious has happened. Now your responsibility is to deal with your friend very friendly and try to make her understand. You have to show some serious cases of addiction in front of her, this will help her a lot.
Your friend’s condition shows that, suddenly her behavior got change; the reason might be her break-off with the boyfriend. I know that you are very much aware about her group, so you have to find out if she was having any boyfriend. If yes, then discuss this matter with him. Secondly you can describe the whole matter to her parents, if they are not aware.
No, this will not be a wise decision to tell her parents all things right now. Firstly try to communicate with your friend about her bad conditions and drugs consumptions. Take her to any of the specialized psychologists to discuss her problems. Later on talk to her parents.
Parents should never be left uninformed about their child especially when the child is heading towards wrong path. You must tell them so that they can look out for some help option for her. You can talk to your friend about this and let her know about the negative effects of abusing drugs.
You must tell her parents as they can search for a good help option for her. Her wrong attitude may spoil her life. You take her other friends along with you and talk to her regarding this. See if she is into a bad company. Suggest her parents to look out for a drug rehabilitation center that could fix her problem.
