I am Jeff and belong to rich family. I live with my mother and father still I feel loneliness. My parents are businessmen and they do not have time for me. They come late and go for sleep. I want to spend time with them but always they ignore me. They do not allow me to go outside and also do not allow my friends to come to my home. Please suggest me what I have to do.
I think you have to consult this problem with your other relatives so that they can contact to your parents for this problem and suggest them to give you some time. But you also have to understand your parent’s problems. Your parent does not trust you that’s why they restricting you, so you have to earn belief of your parents. Once you done that, this will bring more personal and social space for you.
Hi Jeff, your problem is really critical. Your parents doesn’t allow you to go out side and not allow your friends to come to your home because they thin that you can indulge in some bad activities. So the best way to pass you time is to join some dance or swimming classes or whatever you like. I think you parents allow for all such activities. This will also increase your self-confidence and allow yu to get to gather with your friends.
Hello Jeff. I read your whole problem and I have total sympathy for you. In such situations you can spend your time by surfing on internet and you can also make new friends on internet. Else you can help your father in their business and other such activities.
Hi Jeff, seriously there is no use to ask you how are you? Your present conditions are defining all such things. Well I think this is best time for you to join your father business. It will keep you busy most of the time and along with you may come in contact with lots of new people.
Don’t worry Jeff, as you said that you belong to a rich family and your parents are working, it means that there is huge business pressure on your parents. So it might be possible that they are suffering from stress and depression. You just talk to them very respectfully and politely, and express your feeling in front of them.
Jeff you are suffering from loneliness at home, because no body cares you and interact with you. You can explain your problem area to your elder ones i.e. with grand parents and they will help you in this problem. Secondly, you can also spend time in net surfing, watching movies, dancing and in lots of other home activities.
Your parents have to understand your situation. But in high class families, this often happens with teens. You have to talk about it to your relatives or elder one and tell them to talk about it to your parents. May be they can help you. You have to involve your self in such activities that you can not feel alone. You belong to rich family, so can get lots of ways for entertainment.
May be your parents can not give time to you due to their busy schedule. You have to understand their condition. They are doing all these for you. You can pass your time by watching TV, surfing net or reading books. I promise, your parents will fulfill al your needs for your happiness. Hope for the best and try to engage yourself in extra activities.