This is Cena from Washington. My son is a calm guy and stands first in his class. Most of the teachers are satisfied with his behavior and performance. Recently I got few complaints from his teachers that he is not good at his studies and behaves rude to other students. Please support me with a good solution.
As you are saying your son was good brilliant in studies little time back but not now. So may be his friends company is creating unnecessary impacts on his behavior and academic results. You may need to help him in studies and try to share his problems very courteously and politely.
There are lots of reasons for your son’s rude and arrogant behavior, such as bad friend’s circle, education problem, exam tension and lots of other reasons. So you just check it out that whether he might has got into grip of bad company or he is suffering from exam tension. You need to support him in his studies and give him motivation power.
Sometime over pressure of studies distract the students to give their best in consistent manner. This may lead to serious problems of depression and violent activities. You can take help of professional teachers who will support your child to concentrate on studies and avoidance of bad attitude once again.
In my point of view, your son’s behavior has changed due to family problems. If there is some family problem, try to avoid in front of your son otherwise it will negatively affect your son mental condition. The most important think is that, give him extra time and ask his desires and needs. In this way he will quickly get back into his normal life.
It is embarrassing when we heard bad reviews about our child from his teachers. At this time you must be cautious and plan in such a way to find the reason for this problem. Make your son to tell the reason for his activities in the school in a gentle manner and explain him the outcome of these activities or otherwise take him to a professional counselor. These counselors have vast experience in handling these problems and can design a professional approach to come out of these problems.
As you said your son is good at his studies and good at others. If the student is not able to follow his teacher then their might be an ambitious situation for understanding other lessons. I think your son might be facing such a problem so make sure to find out the right reason from your son itself and plan accordingly.
