My daughter has had some loss and is somewhat overstressed - she refuses to go to school and throws partys while I am work. She has been smoking pot and having boys stay the night in her room. She threatens me when I punish her and has NO respect for me or the law as she has had 6 tickets since January. Please help my struggling girl.
Your daughter may face many dangerous problems in her future, just send her immediately to residential treatment center that provide so many recovery programs for such girls to recover them. The physicians and instructors in those schools provide personal attention on each girl.
You have to send your teen to therapeutic center or rehab center. She needs some treatment programs. Don’t scold her and punish her. You have to handle this situation very carefully and talk with her very friendly.
Firstly you need to consult a specialist therapist of one of the reputed struggling teen’s school. They can suggest you to pick best option to make your daughter conditions better. Sometime lack of communication between children and parents create unwanted gap in their relationship. So you need to spend more time with your daughter now firstly.
As far as your daughter’s condition is concerned, she needs love and proper guidance. You should talk her very calmly and politely and ask her about her wishes and needs. I think she has got into the grip of high mental pressure, so you should spend time with her. If you will spend some time with your daughter, she never feels loneliness.
In teenage, children require good support from their parents. Its absence can distract them on wrong paths. So might be your less interaction with your child is one of the reason behind her these activities. You don’t need to give her any punishment for her acts but instead you need make her understand in very polite and respectful ways.
Your daughter is overstressed and that’s why she rejects to go to school. So you must do I think i.e. you can consult with the counselors and therapists of the rehab centers about the state of your daughter. These professional experts will surely guide your daughter and she will recover very soon.
