I am a mother of 13 years old girl. My daughter has been suspended two or three times from her school and she has also caught up in fighting and stealing the things. She never takes attention in her studies and always tries to avoid the homework. I am a divorced woman and my daughter is studying and another is at home. How can I change my daughter’s habit and behavior and we are also looking for some financial need.
It may be possible that your daughter is doing all such things to fulfill her wishes. She may be addicted to drugs and alcohol. Firstly try to talk her in very simple and friendly manner. Give her friendly environment at home. This will motivate her to share inner feelings with you.
Such problems are generally found in those children who are addicted to drugs and alcohol. There are various girls’ troubled teen schools. Their programs and services have been designed specially to treat such victims. You can send your daughter to government approved treatment centers. They offer their programs at very cheap prices
Your daughter has been suspended 2 or 3 times from school and she is just 13 years old. As a mother your responsibility is to look after her and try to make her understand very peacefully. She might be feeling very lonely and depress at home, so give her lots of love and after sometime you will see sudden improvement in her behavior.
As you said that you are a divorced woman and you need some financial help also. You can take the help from any social community and they will definitely help you. From your daughter point of view, she needs your support and advice and you can also visit the cooperative residential treatment centers.