My name is hardy. Age of my son is sixteen. He used to be good in studies and sports. But suddenly he has been changed. Nowadays he likes to live alone. When someone asked him to play or study he unnecessarily started shouting. We don’t what had happened to him. But we are very worried about him. Please suggest something for my son?
Hardy, I think your son is totally alright, but the only thing you have to keep in mind, just be calm with him and talk to him as a friend. Your son might be facing depression and stress due to exam tension, love destruction. You have to understand him and find out the reason for his misbehavior and shouting habit.
In my opinion, you need to take to him to any expert counselors for treatment and they will guide your son and suggest him some exercises also. Sometimes due to high pressure of studies, children can divert from their success tracks. Your son might be having some illness or some behavioral problem also.
As you said Mr. Hardy that yours son was good in studies but nowadays he is not showing that much interest in studies because of sudden change in behavior. According to me it will be very fine for you to consult an psychologist for this because in such cases teenagers generally share their problems with outsider not with their parents.
This time you have to show special care and concern to your son. It will give him some sorts of friendly nature and he can share his feelings or problems with you. Try to make him realize that hiding of problems is not a solution of those problems.