Hi my name is Rob, my son was great in studies, and all the time he stood first in class. But from last two to three months, he is lacking in concentration and all the time he looks dense. Tell me what should I do for my son.
Dear Rob! I think your son is experiencing difficulties in studies. It may be due to extra pressure and stress of studies. You should talk to him very calmly and try to find out what is going wrong with him. It may be some early symptoms of ADD so you should take him to a good counselor which can help you a lot.
Sudden lack of concentration in studies may be due to some incidents in schools such as school bullying, sexual abuse etc. You should go to his school and try to find out what’s going wrong there. You should also talk to his friends also. If you found something wrong then immediately go to the therapist.
As you said your son was great in studies, I think he would facing some stress problems in his school and other school activities. Try to make sure from his teachers and friends what the reason for his behavior.
I would agree with my friends answer because the reason would be like he is stress. Try to make sure his work from the past one month and analyze the amount of work he is doing and the work he is not able to do. So that you could find the reason for your sons distress.
Hi Rob, as you wrote your son is not concentrating towards his studies and looks dense. May be your sons personal life is making him dense, so you have be friendly to your son and try to talk to him about his problem. This is only way through which you can solve your sons problem.
Concentration disorder is the problem that your son is facing. In this a person loses his concentration. Same is happening with your son. Only boarding school can help your child. They have their different methods to solve these kinds of problems. This is best option for your son.
Hi Rob, You wrote that your son is not concentrating in studies from last 2 months. You have to go his school and talk about it with his teachers and classmates. May be you can get some clues. You have to talk about it to your son also because may be he have some personal problem and he needs your help. I think that he is suffering from emotional problem.
Boarding school is a right solution for your son’s problem. Your son is facing concentration problem. His sudden change in his nature can affect his career. You have to consult about it to counselors. I sure that they will be definitely help you.
What I can think about your child is that he may be depressed because of some reason. Try to find out with his friends that what went wrong with him in last few months. Take counselors help. They will provide you with the best possible help option. Always encourage and motivate your child. Make him realize that he is the best.
Before looking for a help option for your child, try to find out to reason behind his this kind of behavior. This will help you to understand your child’s problem in a better manner. Know about his problem from his friend circle and teachers. Also, therapists are of great help to such teens.