I am 21 years old boy. My parents did love marriage. My father is of doubtful nature. Even he does not believe on my mother. She is very nice and quiet lady. My father always scolds her. My father does not allow my mother’s relatives at our home. My mother does not say anything against my father. I want to keep a balance in their relationship. Please help me.
You should talk to your father calmly and try to make him understand that all he thinks about your mother is not true. Try to convince your father that what kind of problem you are facing due to the bad relationship between him and your mother. You can also take help of a good counselor. You can also take help of some one on whom your father trust.
I can understand the situation you are facing due to the behavior of your father. It is often said that doubt is a dieses with no cure. But you have to face this situation very bravely. You have to help yourself and your mother as well. I think her condition is worse. You should talk to your father clearly about his indecent behavior. Taking help of a good family counselor will be helpful for your parents.
As you said your parents had love marriage, then they would understand each other well from that time on wards and he would respect your mother. But the thing is completely different in this case, so we don’t know the reason behind your father’s behavior. So you must work hard and get successful in your life as soon as possible. So that it would be beneficial for you and for your mother. Your mother can lead a happy life from there onwards.
I’m completely agreed with my friends answer he has given a perfect answer for your problem. You should settle in your life immediately to bring a completely new life to your mother. Then at that moment she would feel very happy to come out of from your father and feel great that his son made it all for her.
Hi my name is Tod and I just want to say, you are in very miserable condition. It is very sensitive matter and you have to solve it very carefully. It is very difficult to convince a person who is very doubtful. You must talk to your father that whatever he think about your mother is wrong and tell him not to think about these things. These things will destroy your family.
You are a 21 years old guy. You have the sense and you know how sensitive this matter really is. You must consult with your father about this problem. Ask him why he thinks such a cheap thing about your mother. Your father’s doubtful nature will wipe out your family. You must take some steps.
Your condition is so miserable. You have to talk to your father and ask him about his rude behavior. Your father’s doubtful behavior may be dangerous for your mother. He needs to understand this thing. You must take help from elders and tell them about your problem.
It’s your responsibility to help your mother. First you have to talk to your father because may be he has some problem and does not want to say to your family. You have to check your father’s activities and notice that he may be in bad company. You must solve it carefully.
It’s hard to find such children these days who are really concerned about their parents. I am glad to know that you are one of them. I would suggest you to talk to your father freely about what is right and what is wrong. Make him understand that this relationship is based on trust and not suspicion.
You seem to be really concerned about your parents. You can take an experts advice or a counselors help in this case. Make your father understand that shouting and yelling is not good. Also, make him realize that this kind of atmosphere will affect you and your studies badly.
