Now days my friend has became very aggressive. Last Monday he has used abuse language with our class teacher. I am living with him at his home. He usually does arguments with his parents and did not obey them. His attitude can affect his career. In few days we have lost our several friends because of only his rude behavior. His parents are worried about him and need help.
Your friend needs an aggression management program. This is just an eight week program that helps teens to restore well and reunite with their family. In the program, they teach teens how to control their aggression. There are trainers and psychiatrist that will provide individual help to your friend.
I would suggest you and his parents, to talk to him freely and let him interact with victims of aggression to better understand how aggression hurts people. Also you can help him by getting him involved in impulse control classes.
As you said your friend is behaving with more aggressive these days. So as a friend you need to help him to come out of his problem. I think you just think of any incident occurred these days that might be the cause for his behavior. I think these days, movies are playing a crucial role and verify whether he watched any violent related movie or it may be one of the cause. Try to make him to watch a good movie with no violence and then take a forward step.
One of our friends gave a good idea to change his way of behavior. I think a movie can change his way of behavior, body language, way of thinking and other good qualities. So try to make him to watch good movies and make sure to discuss all the good qualities of the movie. So that it would bring some change in him and may be back to his good behavior.
Your friend is really in a big problem. According to me, there is a secret in his mind that is engulfing him from inside. That why he is becoming more irritate. You have to talk to him because this problem will lead your friend towards troubled teen. You can consult with a professional center about his problem.
As you wrote your friend is getting more abusive and also argument with his parents. I am sorry to say that your friend is facing troubled teens problems. There are many boarding schools and military schools that can help your friend. With his parents go to specialist center they will tell you the procedure.
Aggressive nature of your friend can be dangerous for him and others. You are his friend; I think you live with him most of the time. Do you know what the reason behind his irritating behavior is? If you know, you have to help him to solve out that problem.
As you stated that your friend’s behavior is not good with his parents, may be he is in trouble. His parents should consult to psychiatrist and take their advice to handle him. Several centers are running to help the troubled teens.
This type of aggressive behavior is not normal. It badly affects life and career of anybody. Try to find out the reason of his behavior. Take help of a good doctor or psychologist who can treat your friend well. There are also many transitional programs that help teens having such problems. So find a good program for him and admit him there. He will be surely benefited from it.
These behaviors are the symptoms of ODD (Oppositional Defiant Disorder). This problem can be solved by taking help of a good behavioral treatment program. These programs are specially run by various experts and professionals having long experience in treating such teens. There are many other help resources also such as boarding schools, boot camps etc. You can also take help of them.
