My 14 year old son has been expelled from school four times in last 6 months. I can’t understand what his problem is? Whenever I try to ask him the reason he don’t give any answer and usually becomes angry. His teachers told me that he is not attentive in class and his behavior to other students is very rude. I fear that if he continues doing like this his life will become miserable. What should I do?
As you said earlier your child had expelled from school for more than three times. It is a serious problem to be consider, you haven’t give information that how does he behave at home. He is behaving badly at school so there might me some problem at school, so try to get information that exactly what happened in the school in recent times. You could get some answer for this question then according that we can plan to change his way of thinking.
It is a good answer given by our friend. So try to get more information from the school, teachers and his close friends. Accordingly necessary steps can be taken. Try to talk to him slowly and give what ever he want and ask the reason for his behavior in the school. Make him to understand the situation if he continues to do for a long time.
First of all I want to say that please don’t scold you teen anymore. He is 14 years old and he has some self respect. As you mentioned that his behavior is not good at school, it means he has some problem in schools. May be he is suffering from emotional or behavior problem. You have to contact counselor and get help.
You have to talk to his teachers and friends. May be you would be successful to find out the reason. You had not clarified that how’s your teen’s behavior at home. Is he rude with only friends? May be he has some concentration problem. You should talk to him and ask him the reason behind it. You can send him to boarding school. That is the best option.
Teens who don’t take interest in studies and shows this type of behavior in school must be treated with care and understanding. Find out if he is facing some problems in schools. Sometimes students who are dyslexic or are weak in studies and are unable to perform well in academics becomes rude and naughty. Try to sort out this problem. You can also take help of his teachers.
Teens that don’t get proper love and encouragement from parents often develop such type of habits. Pay proper attention to him and his needs. Talk to him about this very friendly and try to find out what are the reasons of his behavior. Try to sort out his problems if you find anything wrong. You can also take help of an expert counselor.
Getting expelled from school so many times is a problem for the child and his family. In your case, I would suggest you to get your son enrolled in a boarding school, military schools or any private school. These schools are dedicated to help teens with different problems and help them to get into discipline.
In case of expulsion from school, only students who are over 16 years of age can be expelled. Check some more sections about this. You must talk to his school fellows and teachers as what is going wrong him. There must be something going on his mind, may be he is depressed because of some reason. Try to find out answers to these.
