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Hi, my name is Denise and I am a student. My parents, they never talk calmly to each other, all the time they fight. Their fight is disturbing me and my studies. In last examination I got failed in two subjects. I don’t want to fail in this examination. Please tell me, what I should do to stop them to fight.

If you get really upset when your parents fight, you might want to talk to them about your feelings. Sometimes, parents don't realize that their arguing makes you feel upset. If you tell them how you feel, they'll probably try to stop or at least explain to you why they are disagreeing. Are they to the point where they are considering separation or a divorce? It would be nice if they could discuss that possibility with you. The only way to share your feelings and learn what your parents are really feeling is to communicate with them.

Posted by: Simon

Are there other members of your family that you can talk to about this? How about a grandparent, uncle or aunt? Maybe with their help you can get your parents to stop fighting long enough to sit down and talk about what’s going on. If there is no family member who can help, consider talking to your school counselor about your schoolwork and how your parents’ fighting is affecting it. Your school nurse is another possibility, or you family doctor, minister or priest.

Posted by: Simon

See Denise, some parents don’t understand that what effect their fight is having on the child. Your parents fall in the same category. I would advise you to talk to your parents that their fight is disturbing you in your studies. I am sure they don’t wanna ruin your career because of them.

Posted by: Connor

Hi! Denise. This is Dan. I went through the same phase 1 year ago and now you are in the same situation. I know it’s a very tough job to make our parents understand this. But, a good talk with your parents will definitely make them realize this. Take help from a counselor or an expert, as I did.

Posted by: Connor

Dear Denise! I can understand the problem you are facing. In my opinion you should talk to your parents clearly and try to make them understand that their behavior is causing trouble in your life. You can also take help of an elder person in this. You can advice your parents to go for a family counseling therapy. I think your parents understand your view.

Posted by: Denise

Many teens of your age commonly face this type of problem in home due to their parents. Only way to sort it out is to talk with your parents and tell them that their fights are ruining your future. If they don’t understand you then you should take admission in a good boarding school where you will get a peaceful and healthy environment.

Posted by: Tahlia

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